Lifes Lessons Learned

Just something I came across wanted to share wrote Jan 07

As I look back at my life. I see that I've learned many of lives lessons. Some good and some that brought pain. I learned how to love and be loved. And I learned the greatest of them all. Losing the one dream that meant the world to you. But then you realize that life does go on even though you lost what you once thought was the world. We move on and see that things can get better if we allow ourselves the time to heal the wounds. There are many of lives lessons that need to be learned. And there are rewards to each one that we do.

The first one that we learn is a parents love. From day one they held us though think and thin. We caused them 9months of joy and one rewarding day of great pain. Which ends in a night of Bliss and great Love. Our parents held us that day and as we looked up into there eyes that first moment we knew we belonged right there in there arms. As long as we were there we know we are safe. Those are the days to remember. The days when child and parent bond forever in each other arms. When the you first reached out and grasped there hand/finger to the first time you spoke Daddy/Mommy.

The bond between mother and child is one that is a never breaking bond. One that last an eternity. Though child may despise there mother, maybe even hate them (so they claim.) Deep down they know that they love her every so deeply. As much denial as one may have to there mother. They know they are in great debt to them. For they were the ones to hold us for 9months, they were the ones we hurt the most, and they were the ones who dealt our greatest pain. They taught how to do many things walk, talk, and love.

The bond between father and child is not as great as the one of a mother and her child. But it is still there. The father most protect there child. A child must make there father proud of them. And if all else fails the child muse listen wisely to there father for he has many years upon him and is wise. Though they may not act it at times they are wise to the world and they try to share it with there children. The father is the one who gives there child away into another family, they are the ones to approve of the bond between to kids that will last there life time and allow these life lessons to deepen and to expand and be taught over again. So listen to your father when he produces your spouse to be for he is wise and will chose wisely.

Though a love of a parent is great. The love of a lover is even greater. You had the taste of first love on your finger tips. Now its time to get the eternal flame of love lit for eternity. You will know instantly when you meet your lighter that they are your flame and they are the ones who will show you your eternal love. The Gods have bound you with someone on this planet. You are destined to be with. It is only a matter of time before that person comes into your life and its your responsibility to realize that they are the one you are destined to be with.

This love will be so great that the universe will disappear before your eyes at your touch. Everything will become none void when you are together. Not a care in the world. For love is the greatest joy, weapon, and killer of all human feelings. Love will kill you along with making you the happiest person in the world (as far as you are concerned). There are some who venture astray from this type of love. The love that is given to you from the divine. But with time you will realize it and no matter what happiness you realize that you can't keep fighting it and you will find away to one another. Love is like time, you can fight it, try and hide from it, but it will find you no matter where you are what you dress yourself as, it will find you, just as time catches up to you.

You are bound to your first love. You can never forget them. For you gave them your heart first without a thought of being hurt. With no care in the world for you are happy and could care little about the things around you. It built over a time and some you will never tell. But you secretly know that your first love has your heart. But once you part you know that love is your biggest enemy. For those that you love will hurt you the worst. In all the years to come. The pain is everlasting, and the memories are joyous ones. The usually do not know that they hurt you so. And its not our place to tell them that they have because we love them and we want them to be happy. So we let them walk out the door and never look back. For you realize that it was better to have loved them with all your heart then not at all. You secretly keep an eye out for them hoping dreaming of them and there return. But know they will never come back. Hence they became your first true love. And the biggest part of your memory will be the days you spent together and those lonely nights that they were there with you to keep you company. For those are the days that we cherries the most.

A love between a brother and a sister, is indescribable. It is such a bond that no one will truly understand it. They may try to but unless you are a brother or a sister you will never know. That brother wither older or younger takes up the responsibility of protecting there sister no matter what the cost. They will fight any boy/man that tries to harm there sister. Even when they know they have no chance of winning. it's the thought that there sister was hurt and now they must pay. They bond and fight like everyone else. And no matter what is done they will always be there to defend them. A sister takes up the responsibility to make sure that no girl/woman is unworthy of there brother affection. They run these girls that come into play though tests. That they do not tell there brother and secretly approve. Hence formed the brotherly/sisterly bond between two siblings.

The love between two sisters is indescribable. How they survive growing up one will never know. They fight like cats over everything. They take one another things and ruin it by chance. They love each other and yet at the same time they hate one another. But don't let the sisterly hate fool you. Though they may act as if they want nothing to do with one another they will be there for each other if one shall cross them and try to do the other harm. For in there eyes they are the only ones who can do the other harm. Behind closed doors when no one is around they are the sweetest thing to one another.

The ultimate thing I learned was that the bond of a friendship you can never understand. Why people like each other and will do anything for them and ask for nothing in return. No matter what they do, or how many times they hurt you. The bond only grows stronger. As it grows with time it only gets better. Kinda like wine is better with age as a friendship that is as old as time. To have a friend that you knew as a child and to watch each other grow and still last the tributes of life is unbelievable. To be able to withhold all the trials and pain that this world unleashes against us. It amazes me to see how a friendship can last though something that in most cases would make you sick to your stomach. A true friendship at times can be stronger than family. Family is blood but Friends are something you bring into your heart that is not already there. They say blood is thinker than dirty but I would have to say yes that is true but I think a true honest Friendship can be just as think. I have witnessed friends stilling others lovers and being mad at one another but still staying friends and becoming closer than ever. After realizing that a lover is not worth losing a friend over.